FAQ
(Frequently Asked Questions)
Short Answers
to practical questions
What can I expect?
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Before treatment, we will have a short talk with each other (and fill in a health history form), during which I will ask you specific questions designed to make sure there are no contraindications that would prevent me from treating you (contraindications).
No. But it is best if you can give an accurate picture of your health and injuries on your anamnesis or health history form (even those you don't think are relevant). This enables your therapist to prepare, to take caution where caution is needed, to avoid treatment if necessary, and to design the most appropriate and effective treatment for you.
No.
In fact, I prefer not.
With some people this can bring discomfort (and/or the wrong expectations). The point is to be comfortable.
Having said this, I obviously do require the area I am working on to be exposed, as I need to perform the massage on bare skin. Also, one of the essential features of (my) massage is to harness the neglected power of touch and how it reaches into 'forgotten' memory (read more about this in my blog post).
However, for your comfort, after working on one of your legs, for example, I can cover your other leg or the upper half of your body with a soft towel.
There are some massage techniques whereby you can remain clothed, such as chair massage (stoelmassage). However, this is not in my repertoire.
Before your massage, let me know which parts of your body you want me to avoid. For example, many clients aren’t comfortable with having their abdominal area massaged. Your massage therapist will know how to avoid any sensitive areas you identify and still give you a therapeutic experience.
You should always feel free to express any discomfort when undergoing a massage. However, avoid intense chatting during your session. This activates the brain, gets in the way of relaxation and can even lead to increased muscular tension and limit the effectiveness of your massage experience.
Money matters
Payment takes place either before or after the session, either in cash or (preferably) by card. I have a portable card payment device that allows you to pay with your bank card or any credit card.
After payment you will automatically receive an invoice via email (I can also print one and send this to you if you prefer).
Unfortunately, no.
This may change in the future, but for now most masseurs and massage therapists fall within the wellness industry and are therefore not covered by health insurance companies.
If you book your appointment via the booking page, you will automatically receive an email confirmation, as well as an email reminder two days before your appointment. Both emails contain a link for you to cancel your appointment if necessary.
If you book via the telephone, I will manually send you these emails and reminders (as well as an SMS one day in advance).
If you need to cancel your appointment, please do so at least two days in advance.
Now for something I hate to have to write...
Since I have to pay rent for the use of the massage studio (House of Vatality in Hilversum), I will need to charge you 50% if you cancel one day in advance and 100% for same-day cancellations or if you do not show up for your appointment (without a reasonable explanation).
Terms and Methods used
In a nutshell, massage is a form of bodywork but bodywork is more than massage. In general, one chooses massage for relaxation, general well-being, or for addressing mild muscular concerns. Those who are looking to address more specific issues, such as pain, flexibility, posture, or restrictions in body movement, will benefit from bodywork. The difference is incorporated in the three ManoVita 'intentions': RELAX (massage), RELEASE (massage & mild bodywork), RE-MOVE (in-depth bodywork).
"Alchemy of Touch is a dynamic & poetic form of transformational bodywork developed by Tapesh Paradiso and accentuated by the embodied wisdom of Anouk Devi. It is designed to elevate massage, bodywork and healing to a new level by harmonizing both musculoskeletal and energetic techniques from many different Eastern and Western modalities"
Read more on their website: Anatomy of Touch
Myofascial release is a style of massage and bodywork that works with the deep conncective tissue of the body.
The 'fascia' is essentially a thin sheath of connective tissue that is wrapped around virtually every muscle (and organ) in the human body. This tissue is thought to become inflamed or irritated with sustained and repetitive strain. The irritated areas can affect larger muscle regions (most often shoulders and upper back between the shoulder blades and lower back area).
Myofascial therapies can involve drugs or ‘sprays’, but manual techniques are more effective. These include applying slow but sustained pressure and “rolling” techniques that seek to ‘stretch’ the fascia and increase movement between the surfaces of muscles and/or between muscles and other tissues.
It is important when applying this therapy, that minimal or no oil is used and that the rolling and pressure movements are slow to allow for subcutaneous viscous flow.
'Fascia Bodywork' is my own term for the type of fascial work that I offer certain clients. It is a style of massage and bodywork inspired in part by 1. Structural Integration (sometimes known as 'Rolfing') which is an intensive massage form developed by Ida Rolf in the 1970's, and 2. the Anatomy Trains™ method developed by Tom Myers, and 3. Myofascial Release. Importantly, my method adopts a much gentler approach and is not equivalent to any of these methods.
What these methods all have in common is that they attempt to bring movement in the fascia where this has become rigid or 'sticky'. (also see 'What is fascia?")
Fascia surrounds muscles, groups of muscles, blood vessels, organs, and nerves, binding some structures together while permitting others to slide smoothly over each other.
Fascia is designed to be elastic and move freely with muscles and bones. Injury, stress, work-related repetitive movements and the effects of aging can cause fascia to lose its elasticity and become shorter, tighter, and more dense. Tightened fascia pulls our muscles and skeleton out of proper alignment and posture, which can cause pain, discomfort, and fatigue.
Joint mobilization (shoulders, scapula, elbows, fingers, neck, vertebrae, ankels, toes) is performed by bringing the joint slowly through a small and precise range of motion (while also applying mild massage of the involved muscles and connective tissue). The crucial difference between chiropractic joint manipulation/adjustment and joint mobilization is that massage joint mobilization is performed slowly and never involves a fast thrust. (adapted from: https://www.massagetoday.com/articles/14556/Massage-Therapy-and-Joint-Mobilization)
A trigger point is a spot that is sensitive to pressure, mainly in muscle tissue, and often associated with aching and stiffness. Almost everyone gets these spots, like pimples, but some people get more of them, and more painful ones, and no one really knows what they are. They have had many names over the decades, but myofascial trigger point (TrP) is the trendiest and most widely accepted label in the last 20 years. (adapted from: https://www.painscience.com/tutorials/trigger-points.php)
Various other questions
People get massages for many reasons:
- Relaxation, Injury recovery, Pain reduction, Stress relief, Migraine headache, Improved digestion, Fibromyalgia, Insomnia, Heart disease, diabetes, and cancer symptom reduction
These are some general benefits of adding regular massage therapy to your health and wellness strategy:
- Increased Immune Function
Medical research indicates that massage therapy can help boost immune system strength by increasing the activity level of the body’s natural “killer T cells,” which fight off viruses. - Boost Mental Health and Wellness
Research suggests that symptoms of stress, anxiety, and depression (all associated with mental health) may be directly affected by massage therapy. - Pain Management and Improved Range of Motion
Pain can negatively affect a person’s quality of life and impede recovery from illness or injury. Recent findings highlight the role of massage in pain management.
Massage therapists offer non-invasive, non-narcotic treatments for many types of injuries and pain. However, massage isn’t for everyone. People with high blood pressure, deep-vein thrombosis, and certain skin conditions should check with a doctor before getting a massage. If you have a fever, feel dizzy, or have recently been in an accident, you may want to postpone your massage appointment.
Chronic pain can be said to be the speciality of massage therapy. The intention is not to cure the issue but to relieve discomfort.
Patients suffering from cancer other medically diagnosed issues should consult their general practitioner before booking a massage session. However, there are many reports and studies showing that massage can offer great relief in dealing with pain involved with cancer and other medical conditions. Again, consult your doctor first.
There is no requirement to have a referral to see a Registered Massage Therapist. Extended health care plans and insurers may require a referral before you will be covered. You need to check with your policy to see if you need one to be reimbursed for the treatments.
Longer Answers
for curious readers
Down-to-Earth?
Keep it simple.
Often, massage sessions are seen as moments of luxury, of a way of treating yourself to something nice, for an hour every now and then. While there is nothing wrong with this, my ambition is to offer something more.
Massage can be so much more than a moment to relax and find relief, something that may only last for the time you lie on the massage table, or perhaps a few hours after that. Massage, or 'touching with intention', can be part of a transformation - which Anouk Devi sees as part of "revolution of touch". It can be a treatment that you can take with you though time and shared with others. Ideally, I imagine massage and bodywork sessions to be part of a transformative process in our lives.
The 'down-to-earth' concept that try to embody in my massage is part of a larger attitude to life and living. It is one aspect of a (yogic) philosophy that is convinced of the power of treading lightly, of bringing all things to their terrestrial mother and to live a more simple - and sustainable - life.
Belonging to a territory is the phenomenon most in need of rethinking and careful redescription; learning new ways to inhabit the Earth is our biggest challenge. Bringing us down to earth is the task of politics today.
We often believe that we need to add many spices to a soup to make it better, or that we should divise even more complicated sytems and technologies to solve our everyday as well as global problems. But a more simple solution is often staring us in the face. It involves removing what we do not need, of having less on our shoulders rather than more, of simplifying the routines and systems in which we find ourselves, so that we may actually begin to understand what is going on. All of this is a part of what I believe is the necessity of bringing things down to earth again. I believe this must begin and end with our bodies.
How do we stand or walk in the world? Do we know our posture, our pose? Our attitude to life is more than how we feel about things, it defines who we are, the way we interact with those around us and with our environment at large.
It is often believed that the Buddha once said that “the mind is everything. What you think, you become.” Part of regulating, or being more in tune with your own mind, is to brind your mind back into your body and back to where you body resides. The trick is to be aware of the place and space, the very ground on which your body relies.
In order to heal the mind - and the world - it is important to re-learn how we touch the ground with our feet, and how to allow the ground to hold us, to support us as we walk, run and fall.
The Holistic Approach?
The blending of methodologies is an important aspect of an holistic approach to health and healing. Simply put, a holistic approach means treating healing as something that involves the whole person and not just the part that 'hurts'.
The holistic approach suits my sceptical nature. I am not a believer, in anything. But I am insatiably curious. When it comes to massage and health my interests are broadly holistic. I narrow down or specialise by selecting those techniques which I think will work best for a particular person or situation. I do not follow or fully endorse all aspects of a single tradition or application of any one medical or alternative practice of healing.
Some may think that maintaining a broad approach is a weakness – that one should choose a path and specialise in a certain area or technique. I believe it is a strength because health, illness and healing are never singular in nature. Problems arise for many - often untraceable - reasons. A whole person is more than the sum of the parts of their body. A person includes their 'story'; how you interact with others and the world, what you do with your body and what has been done to your body. With this in mind, the holistic approach also means that I never treat anyone exactly as I would another. It also means I never stop learning, that I never take a method for granted and apply it mindlessly or allow it to become ritual or protocol.
The holistic approach simetimes suffers from an image problem. Many think it's some hippie or new age mumbo jumo. And indeed, some practitioners often offer up strange sounding and even spurious claims. What does it mean, exactly, to rebalance your energy, or to bring harmony between body, mind and… indeed spirit?
True or not, many people are put off by what in Dutch is referred to as "zweeferigheid", which I can only translate as floating above the ground. Indeed, this is another reason for my 'Down-to-Earth' approach. One of my main goals is to attempt to bridge the gap between the sceptic and the believer, the cynic with the idealist, the hippie with the scientist, the ascetic with society, and so on.
Yet there are also many benefits to 'zweeferigheid', some of which I try to incorporate within my work. Science helps a lot here, for it is often able to put words and evidence that, more often than not, lends support to the vague-sounding claims and ideas of the more 'spiritually' oriented healers.
Fascial Release:
Magic & Myth
The study of fascia is a relatively new field (10-15 years). For centuries - and still today - anatomical lessons involved cutting away this connective tissue to reveal the skeletal and muscular systems. But now, treating this connective substance is showing its value in a mutitude of ways. The connective tissue that surrounds your muscles and organs, known as fascia, has always been ignored – but new insights suggest it holds the key to tackling chronic pain and immune dysfunction. The treatment of fascia has largely been the preserve of physiotherapy and other medical fields interested in anatomical and physiologial movement studies. But massage has always been involved with the fascia, even before we knew so ourselves. In fact, as a John's Hopkins article explains, the pain you feel in you muscles may actually be your facia.
The fascia is a relatively new field of study (10-15 years). For centuries - and still today - anatomical lessons involved cutting away this connective tissue to reveal the skeletal and muscular systems. But now, treating this connective substance is showing its value in a mutitude of ways. The study of fascia has largely been the preserve of physiotherapy and other medical fields interested in the anatomical and physiologial movement studies. But massage has always been involved with the fascia, even before we knew so ourselves.
Anti-fascia
"Myofascial release" therapies have become something of a hype in recent years, and massage therapists sometimes make unproven health-claims involved with 'releasing' or 'stretching' the fascia. It's no surprise then, that the medical approach often downplays the efficacy of massage or the training or knowledge of massage therapists, and often for good reason. While it cannot be denied that massage therapists appear to be achieving 'something' when it comes to the fascia, some of the claims made by massage therapists should be scrutinised. On the other hand, let's not throw the baby out with the bathwater! By this I mean that there are also 'scientists' that still reject any importance or benefit at all to working with the fascia.
The Pain Science institute, for example (painscience.com) resorts to the (centuries-old) assumption that the fascia is primarily a "wrapping" and a "barrier against infection". That's it folks, it's just the "white stuff" between the more important muscles, organs and bones.
What they fail to take into account is that the fascia is not just a barrier but also "connective tissue". Take this insight away and everything loses perspective.
Myth 1: You can't stretch fascia.
What benefit is achieved from manipulating or 'stretching' fascia?
"Fascia is fibrous connective tissue that wraps and supports muscles, bones, tendons, ligaments, organs, nerves-pretty much everything. Fascia stretching is said to give you a feeling of deep relaxation and rejuvenation that no other regular Swedish massage could ever do. The technique called fascial stretch therapy was developed by Ann Frederick, the first "flexibility specialist" to work with athletes at the Olympics, and it aims to improve every aspect of athletic performance and recovery." https://www.shape.com/fitness/tips/fascial-stretching-benefits
Unfortunately, it turns out that the fascia is so strong that there is no scientific or (physio)logical proof that it can be stretched at all. What you can do is keep it in motion, 'hydrate' it (with supplements and movement) and retrain (or indeed 'remove') its tensile strength or the latice position to which it tends to rebound. This is how to eventually manipulate and change its overall structure and the 'stance' of your body in the process.
Myth 2. Release the Kracken!
What is meant by myofascial release (or fascial release)?
When we say 'release' we actually mean getting it all moving again. This includes mobilisation of the fascia, physical movement of the fascial connections, neurological retraining, and rehydration. Fascia can become immobile or stuck in its ways. Its function is to hold the varous muscles and organs in their place, but when we have 'trained' them to hold these tissues in the wrong way - due to bad posture or repetetive movements - the fascia may hold this habitual incorrect position. This is known as 'fascial adaptation'.
"This principle of fascial adaptation is triggered by any repetitive movements, or even a lack of movement where the fascia thickens to hold you in place. Athletic training is no different to the demands put on the body by office work. Any load which is excessive or repeated without a counterbalancing release will result in thickened, inflamed and damaged fascia. (https://paincareclinic.co.uk/conditions/can-you-stretch-fascia/)
Which brings us back to stretching. We know that trying to force fascia to stretch is not going to get us anywhere. However the viscoelastic properties of fascia also mean that it responds well to heat and (gentle) sustained pressure. This combination creates a physical change in the tissue, making it more fluid, in much the same way that the combination of heating and stirring hardened honey makes it more runny. Research has shown that maintaining heat and gentle pressure for 1-5 minutes will create positive change in the collagen lattice of fascia.
Which brings us back to stretching. We know that trying to force fascia to stretch is not going to get us anywhere. However the viscoelastic properties of fascia also mean that it responds well to heat and (gentle) sustained pressure. This combination creates a physical change in the tissue, making it more fluid, in much the same way that the combination of heating and stirring hardened honey makes it more runny. Research has shown that maintaining heat and gentle pressure for 1-5 minutes will create positive change in the collagen lattice of fascia.
Training
My approach, (especially with the intention Remove) is to apply the insights and techniques of such modalites as Structural Integration, Rolfing, and especially Yin Yoga; to bring fluidity and motion in restricted tissues, with the aim of eventually affecting the 'resting position' of the body and the supporting fascial lattice.
There are many practitioners who apply devices to try to achieve this. I rely on my hands and your body to 'know' what to do. For example, Tom Myers, arguably the most influential person when it comes to highlighting the importance of the fascia in physical fitness, says the following about using a foam roller in contrast with using just the hands of the massage therapist (or phyiscal therapist):
"I value the knowing hand over the unknowing object as a tool for inner body change. I can create this shear through positioning the client and adjusting my hand pressure and position constantly via sensory feedback, so I am better than a foam roller. I can see and find the ‘silent’ places of tension they don’t even know about and awaken them or ease them. I can see the whole pattern and create treatments that progressively free these adhesions in an integrated fashion. I can feel when it’s ‘cooked’."
Tom Myers: anatomytrains.com/blog
Importantly, however, my goal is to eventually help the client become self-sufficient and to provide them with the (self)awareness to continue to help themselves (I am a teacher).
"[...] believing that only a skilled clinician can stretch your fascia for you can make you believe that you need that person to “fix” you. That takes the locus of control away from you and makes you dependent on someone else for your health. That shouldn’t be the case. [...] If the occasional deep tissue massage or “fascial release” makes you feel good, that’s great but the therapist ought to be showing you ways to help yourself and prevent that pain and tightness in the future. Once you know what to do the rest is up to you." (gothamphysicaltherapy.com)
Training
My approach, (especially with the intention Re-move) is to apply the insights and techniques of such modalites as Structural Integration, Rolfing, and especially Yin Yoga, to bring fluidity and motion in restricted tissues. The aim is to eventually alter the 'resting position' of the body and the supporting fascial lattice.
There are many practitioners who apply devices to try to achieve this. I rely on my hands and your body to 'know' what to do. For example, Tom Myers, arguably the most influential person when it comes to highlighting the importance of the fascia in physical fitness, says the following about using a foam roller in contrast with using just the hands of the massage therapist (or phyiscal therapist):
"I value the knowing hand over the unknowing object as a tool for inner body change. I can create this shear through positioning the client and adjusting my hand pressure and position constantly via sensory feedback, so I am better than a foam roller. I can see and find the ‘silent’ places of tension they don’t even know about and awaken them or ease them. I can see the whole pattern and create treatments that progressively free these adhesions in an integrated fashion. I can feel when it’s ‘cooked’."
-- Tom Myers: anatomytrains.com/blog
Importantly, however, my goal is to eventually help the client become self-sufficient and to provide them with the (self)awareness to continue to help themselves (afterall, I was a teacher for many years).
"[...] believing that only a skilled clinician can stretch your fascia for you can make you believe that you need that person to “fix” you. That takes the locus of control away from you and makes you dependent on someone else for your health. That shouldn’t be the case. [...] If the occasional deep tissue massage or “fascial release” makes you feel good, that’s great but the therapist ought to be showing you ways to help yourself and prevent that pain and tightness in the future. Once you know what to do the rest is up to you." gothamphysicaltherapy.com
Links and further reading/viewing
- Karl Jacobs: https://youtu.be/cAnTP9ryYVk and https://youtu.be/FQK1oLWlCl4
- Jean-Claude Guimberteau: https://fascialconnection.lat/jean-claude-guimberteau-md-francia-2/
- Johns Hopkins University: 'muscle' pain my actually be fascia: https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/wellness-and-prevention/muscle-pain-it-may-actually-be-your-fascia
- https://www.massageandbodyworkdigital.com/i/720675-september-october-2016/6?
The Body Remembers
We are more than our brains
I am fascinated by an idea that runs contrary to the popular idea that “We are Our Brains”, as put forth by Dick Zwaab, for whom I nonetheless have a lot of respect (see: we are our brains). It is my contention, however, along with many others, that there is more to us than than what goes on in our brain. Experience is lodged in pathways that transcend the brain, as such. This is a vast and complex topic and it is one to which I will return at a later stage. For now, as a kind of teaser, or as a way to start the ‘conversation’, I want to point to the words of others. In a thought provoking article, Lia Mack, the author of Waiting for Paint to Dry (Pen L, May 2015), writes:
Your body, believe it or not, remembers everything. Sounds, smells, touches, tastes. But the memory is not held in your mind, locked somewhere in the recesses of your brain. Instead, it’s held in your body, all the way down at the cellular level. Ever notice how, on a stage full of professional dancers, everyone still moves in their own way? That’s because our cells store memories – information – about our experiences, habits, sensations, everything. We are all unique and it’s in our bodies – our skin, muscles, tendons, nerves – which we actively participate through our day to day experiences; good ones and bad.
Sometimes, the memories that our body stores are not always memories that we consciously, as the survivor, remember. You may have been too young to remember. You may have blacked out. For whatever reason, you don’t know what your body knows. As Renee Fredrickson, Ph.D. says in A Journey to Recovery from Sexual Abuse, “The traumatic and the trivial are the two kinds of information your mind represses.” Othe major Writers in the field of mind and body health in relation to trauma and Bessel van der Kolk (see for example this short video on his work: The Body Keeps the Score) and Gabor Mate (on whom I will be writing more at a later date).
My work, however, is parhaps more related to the trivial (though I do not shy away from the traumatic if it reveals iself). My focus lies in the seemingly trivial way in which we carry ourselves in day-to-day activities, which can be the very storage centre of significant memory as well as change. It is the seemingly trivial that offers pathways to change and healing in the way that it yields to 'rememory' - or forgetting - which is what I utilise in my third intention re-move.
I will have much more to say on this topic but I choose for now to quote the words of the most wonderful poet Rainer Maria Rilke:
… it is not enough to have memories. You must be able to forget them when they are many, and you must have the immense patience to wait until they return. For the memories themselves are not important. Only when they have changed into our very blood, into glance and gesture, and are nameless, no longer to be distinguished from ourselves – only then can it happen that in some very rare hour the first word of a poem arises in their midst and goes forth from them.
The Mind/Body Problem... or Potential
Part of the problem in thinking about memory, mind and the body is that we think about these things as separate entities. This is fundamentally a Cartesian perspective (“I think therefore I am”). The truth is, there is very little sense in talking about memory in these terms, as if it were something that could exist as the experience of either the mind or the body. There is no seperation. What we perceive as someting fo the mind passes into the body and vice versa. Unfortunately, the process is so complex and surreptitious that we are largely unaware that this is taking place. The result is that the 'storage' of this memory becomes unconscious, or as I think of it, subcutaneous. Nevertheless, these memories play a crucial role in the restrictions and potential ways we conducts ourselves, the way we hold and move our bodies through space and time, whether we slouch or stand tall, to mention but two of many ways in which our stance becomes us. As Thomas Fuchs puts it:
Unconscious fixations are like restrictions in the spatial potentiality of a person, caused by a past which is implicit in the present and resists the progress of life; this includes traumatic experiences in particular. Their traces are not hidden in an interior psychic world, but manifest themselves – as in a figure-background relationship – in the form of “blind spots” or “empty spaces” in day-to-day living. They manifest themselves in behavior patterns into which a person repeatedly blunders, in actions that she avoids without being aware of it or in the opportunities offered by life which she does not dare to take or even to see. The unconscious of body memory is thus characterized by the absence of forgotten or repressed experiences, and at the same time by their corporeal and intercorporeal presence in the lived space and in the day-to-day life of a person.
One of the things to be concluded from this is that, what we are, the person we have become, has much to do with things we have remembered of which we no longer are aware, and that this is not something that lies in past but in the present way in which we – our bodies – continue to move through the space of everyday life. Our very identities are processes that are ongoing and always changing. The upside to this is that, if memories are processes we cary with us in our body's behaviour, not just in deep vestiges in the brain’s forgotten cavities, then we also have the potential to shape and reshape our bodies and thus also our memories.
Other Bodies
To change the tone a bit now, or to add to the confusion and the wonderful complexity of memory, consider that our body also remembers the bodies of others whom we have touched or have been touched and moved by – both positively or negatively.
In a short article, called, “The Body Remembers All”, the Yogi mystic Jaggi Vasudev, associates this kind of meeting and remembering bodies with karma (I will be posting more on the common misconceptions of Karma another time). Drawing from his own traditions, he calls this runanubandha:
Runanubandha is a certain aspect of karma; it is a certain structure of karmic substance. It happens because of a certain amount of meeting and mingling that happens between people. Wherever there is a certain amount of meeting and mingling, some runanubandha is created.
Especially when two bodies come together, the runanubandha is much deeper. It is a kind of recording in the body; the body is keeping a record of everything that has happened. If intimacy happened with another body, it is keeping a record of that particular kind of energy. The Body Remembers All
Practical Memory Release
There are so many ways in which we can think of how the body remembers, and what to do with this insight. What if we start seeing our bodily discomforts, pains and tensions from the perspective of an informative friend? Not to mention that it always is working on your side: do you have to think and work hard to breathe, digest? Experience the gift of your tensions. Listen to what they tell you and see them as the road back to balance.
Links on the practical side of working with Body Memory:
- how-to-reconnect-with-our-body-and-attain-health
- http://tinybuddha.com/blog/how-to-release-the-painful-memories-emotions-stored-in-your-body/
Links on Memory, The Uncanny, Trauma, Body, etc.
- https://www.survivormanual.com/how-to-deal-with-body-memories-as-a-survivor-of-sexual-assault/
The Neuroscience of Body Memory
https://partiallyexaminedlife.com/2011/12/16/memory-body-and-truth/ - http://makemag.com/review-the-memory-of-place-a-phenomenology-of-the-uncanny-by-dylan-trigg/
- https://www.amazon.com/Meditations-First-Philosophy-Hackett-Classics/dp/0872201929/ref=sm_n_au_dka_NL_pr_fal_0_2?adId=0872201929&creativeASIN=0872201929&linkId=96533e3a72ea395c3049f271b9e552ba&tag=theparexalif-20&linkCode=w70&ref-refURL=https%3A%2F%2Fpartiallyexaminedlife.com%2F2011%2F12%2F16%2Fmemory-body-and-truth%2F&slotNum=0&imprToken=.5h02X4TUzTFrLjJUMSEnQ&adType=smart&adMode=auto&adFormat=strip&impressionTimestamp=1565874303468
- Julian Barnes, The Sense of an Ending.